A Little Risk
2021 has certainly been a year of challenges for many. We’ve been tested in so many ways, it often fails explanation. I’m of course referring to the Covid-19 pandemic that has afflicted us all and hampered our predictable North American lifestyle.
Up to that point, we’ve been far too comfortable with our way of life. By that I mean that many have been blessed with good-paying jobs, luxurious homes and having the leisure time to indulge in all sorts of recreational activities: sporting events, theatre outings or live concerts.
Still, what many of us considered as an important aspect was the ability to travel. Freely, without restrictions. The access to airlines via the internet made trip planning a breeze. Just a few clicks of the mouse and your reservation was downloaded and displayed on your smart phone, or if you preferred, on the printed page. All that was left was to check that your passport was still valid.
The pandemic changed all that. Do you want to go to your favorite restaurant? The symphony? What about access to a professional sporting event? Aside from the usual security check for contraband, everyone now must adhere to posted protocols (vaccination, wearing masks, social distancing when possible) and produce a valid vaccination card. This latest incumbrance has unfortunately led to a host of complaints by those who’ve opted not to get vaccinated.
Add to the frustration lineups and social distancing requirements and you end up with a bunch of disgruntled patrons. It doesn’t take long for our true nature to come out. True nature? Yes, our human nature: irritability, little patience, and a sense of entitlement. That reminds me what a local pastor is fond of saying. He called it the toothpaste test. “You don’t know what’s on the inside until the tube gets squeezed.” In this case, when frustrations come to a boiling point, the “squeezed” patron reacts and spews out those not so niceties that have been lingering inside. In other words, for typical homo sapiens, our true feelings come spurting out faster than you can say Justin Trudeau. Oops, how did that stumble out?
So, what has changed for me? I suppose it’s been the lack of social interaction, particularly with family and friends. Everyone seems to be more prone to staying at home and not venturing out, even when protocols have been met. For example, take church activities. Not so long ago, if you wanted that coveted seat you’d better come early. Nowadays, the entire section is at your disposal. What about standing in line at your favourite restaurant on a busy Friday evening? No problem. Stay at home and order through one of the many delivery companies like Door Dash or Skip the Dishes. Are you inclined to catch the latest flick? You can do so without leaving your sanctuary. Don’t bother warming up the car. While fixing your snack, simply order the latest release from your streaming service, like Netflix or Crave.
Although we can have meetings via Facetime or Zoom, it just isn’t the same. I long for that personal, in-your-face interaction — the white’s of his/her eyes. Hmm, I suppose that was a little too close. You get the picture.
The pandemic may not be done with us yet, but I’m ready to move on with a little risk. Life’s all about that. Risk.
Reach out and touch someone. You’ll be glad you did.
Robert is a historical fiction writer and translator living in Winnipeg, Manitoba. Find him at: www.robertstermscheg.com
